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This Bittersweet Life

Last I left off on this theme of new beginnings for my family, my Oma (grandmother) had passed and we were starting to pack up both houses.  I was also worried about not breaking down in the middle of a concert while trying to play Strauss' An der Schönen, Blauen Donau (The Beautiful Blue Danube).  I'm happy to report that I made it through the concert!  A few tears were shed but it was nothing I couldn't play through.  

Since that posting in April, so much has changed in our lives.  My mom and her brother (my uncle from Texas) both decided that when my my Oma was gone, that my mom should sell her house and then they would sell my Oma's house and get my mom into a new house--let her start over with a clean slate.  And that is exactly what we have done. 

My mom already had a builder in mind and a model home that she loved but we did some searching around anyway just in case she couldn't afford the home of her dreams.  The goal was to get her into a house where everything she needed was on the main level.  We wanted this to be her "forever home, " just like my Oma's home was for her.  We just wanted a house that was newer for my mom and with less land and no pool so it would be cheaper and less work for my mom.  We wanted her to be able to come home at the end of a long work day and just enjoy her new house, not worry about what needed repairing and how she would pay for pool maintenance and what tree needed trimming on the acre and a quarter of land my Oma owned. 


From upper left:  My Oma's land in the dead of winter; Her land in the spring (her land goes nearly up to the yellow house up the hill, and that is only on one side of the house!); Her in-ground pool closed for the season; My sister, Caitlin, enjoying the pool with the family one of the last few times.  


After finding the right home for my mom, we started working with Oakwood Homes.  The sales office representative, Stacy, was fantastic.  She's a single mom and understood a lot of what my mom had been through and what penny pinching feels like.  She suggested my mom have a meeting with their lender to go over her finances and see how much of a loan she could afford.  The lender, Kevin, was also very nice and helped my mom figure out that she could afford the house of her dreams and she would end up having a small loan--one that would be about the size of a brand new luxury car--except she'd be getting a new, energy efficient home with lots of space for the whole family!  So my mom signed a contingent contract with Oakwood--contingent on the sale of her own home.  This new home will be the nicest thing my mom will have ever owned and I'm so happy for her! 

This process has been an adventure but bittersweet at the same time.  My mom's house was my childhood home.  It was also my mom's childhood home--it had been in the family since it was built.  My Oma's house had been in the family since my mom was a senior in high school.  My family rented out the old house and when my parents married, they rented it out.  Eventually, my Oma signed the old house over to my mom when my parents divorced.  She wanted to make sure that my mom, sister and I always had a roof over our heads.  My Oma was always taking care of us.  If it weren't for her, we may have been homeless or at least without food.  Times were pretty tough after my dad left.  


Top:  The outside and inside of my mom's favorite model from Oakwood Homes.  The open floor plan on the main level with a master bedroom and laundry room on the main floor is what sold her on this house.
Bottom:  Our selections at the New Home Design Center for our hardwood floors, carpeting, tiles, laminate flooring and countertops, granite countertops fireplace tile and cabinetry.


When my mom went to sell her house, it was very nerve racking for her.  She had never bought or sold a home before, and here we were selling one and getting ready to sell another.  Luckily, the market for sellers is amazing right now and my mom's realtor for her house is even more amazing! If you are looking to buy or sell in the Colorado Springs area, Treasure Davis of Remax knows what she is doing and is great with first time buyers/sellers.  The sale of our house went fast and we got $10,000 over the asking price.  (There is basically a bidding war going on down here the market is so crazy right now!)  My mom was stunned.  Our little house in the south end of town was in need of some updating and a little bit of work--or as Treasure put it, it just needs a little TLC. 

During the selling process of my mom's house, we had appointments with the lender again, and also with the New Home Center for learning about what to expect during Oakwood's building process and to select what we wanted in the new house!  My sister joined my mom and I for selections and it's a good thing.  It was totally overwhelming but the representative helping us through it was great.  She new my mom's budget and only showed us what would fit in the budget. We stayed pretty baseline on most of the selections but we upgraded to darker woods and extended the hardwood flooring on the main level into the living room.  This opened up some other options for us, like upgrading the carpet and carpet pad.  All in all, we are very happy with our selections!  

So in late July came closing on my mother's house.  I had to leave my gardens and the rosebush that my Opa planted at the house when my family moved in.  My heirloom rosebush...it was the pride and joy of my gardens.  I tried rooting cuttings but I could never get it to work.  So I promised my Opa that I would plant a new rosebush in his honor at the new house.


From Top Left:  The corner of my mom's old house and the front yard, including my very large Russian Sage plants around the lamppost; A nearly full storage unit that you can see I've packed to the brim in the back; My Opa's (grandfather's) rosebush--the pride and joy of my garden that sometimes showed streaks of pink in the yellow petals when the summer days got really hot.  


At this point, we had two storage units full of furniture and house decor.  We new that the new house would not be done before we had to move out of my Oma's house.  My mom said that I have been playing storage unit Tetris for the past several months.  While keeping my eye out for a job I might like, I have basically been my mom's secretary and packer/mover.  But the best part closing was that my mom had signed to release the contingency on the building of her new home and in the matter of 2 weeks, they would begin construction on the new house!

Selling my Oma's house went a lot faster than my uncle's realtor thought it would.  We got a little bit over the asking price.  I think if my uncle had left it on the market longer, he would have got more.  I know he was trying to make sure that when it came time for closing on my mom's new house, that she had all the money she could have so she would get a small mortgage.  

A month or so before closing on the house we had to close the swimming pool and the buyers  wanted to come and see the process.  We really didn't want to meet these people but my mom had no choice in the matter.  They seemed nice enough and were interested in keeping the pool going.  This was nice to hear because when my family moved into this house, the pool wasn't in working condition and my Opa (grandfather) got it running even after people told him he should just fill it in and turn it into a garden. 

 
Top:  The temp controlled storage unit nearly full to "so full we can't put anything else in it" (our new house doesn't come with a fridge and our fridge at my mom's house was a gift from my Oma).
Bottom:  The two outdoor storage units--the second one got packed a little nicer than the first one...Look!  It's my mattress and my office chair!  Hello, stuff, we miss you!!


In early October it was time to leave my Oma's house.  With three storage units now full, my mom and I took only our toiletries, a small portion of our clothes and our computers and my instruments and moved into our temporary homes--my mom moved into my sister and brother-in-law's 2 bedroom apartment and my dogs and  I moved in with my dad and his wife, Jane (and their 3 dogs and a cat--it's like a mini petting zoo, but it's only for 3 months)!  I've also managed to apply recently for a marketing and graphics position with the local philharmonic.  I'm just waiting to hear back now.  (Keep your fingers crossed for me!)

I think we are all to the point now where we are more excited than reminiscent and melancholy, or overwhelmed!  I try not to think very often about the two homes I spent my childhood years in.  Mostly I try not to think about my Opa's rosebush dying at the hands of the new owners of my mom's house.  In the meantime, I will search for a rosebush similar to my Opa's from Heirloom Roses--something yellow with streaks of pink as the summer days get hotter.   

  
From top left:  The hole is dug for our new home; Headers and footers are in and they are getting ready to pour the foundation; The foundation is poured and the basement looks huge!; Building supplies are arriving and filling up the lot!


I know these 3 months will go by quick, but I'm excited to move into my mom's new house with her.  I'll have the whole upper level to myself.  And I really don't care that I'm nearing my mid-30s and still living with my mom (and currently my dad).  Even if I get a job that I could afford to live on my own, why would I when I hate cooking for 1 and love my mother's company.  Did I mention that my sister wants to move in to the downstairs bedroom in my mom's new home too?!  Plus I encourage people to spend more time with their grandparents.  I spent so much time with my Oma before she died, more than most grandkids, and I would give anything for just 1 more day with her.  So to all you millennials out there living with your parents or grandparents, don't be embarrassed!  All of the homebuilders we spoke with during this process have said they are seeing more multi-generation families searching for a home together and that the builders have been trying to build more models that would accommodate them.  Imagine that!? 

Adrienne 


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My early spring flowers have bloomed and the late spring flowers are coming to an end while my summer flowers are just starting to take off!  We opened my Oma's pool and took our first dip in it to celebrate the sale of my mom's house and old car--my Oma would be proud that we took some time out of our chaotic schedule to celebrate something.  It's about time we did.  It has been four months since my Oma's passing and there hasn't been a whole lot to celebrate lately, it seems.

But soon my mom and I will be down to one house instead of two and are now down two cars instead of three.  And in about 6 months, we will be moving into my mom's new house.  Yes, I admit it, I'm 32-years-old and I still live with my mother.  I have lived on my own before, when I had full-time jobs.  But during my years of working for a non-profit and later taking care of my Oma it was necessary to live with family.  I wouldn't change it for anything.  When I lived on my own, I seriously hated cooking for one!

Lemons, sugar and water make up this lemon sorbet but if you replace 1/2 cup of water
with Limoncello, you will get a slightly sweeter version of this luscious dessert.
(Looks like my Limoncello bottle could use a refill!)  

But I digress!  

First, I will say that I inherited a serious taste for sour things.  My Oma used to eat lemons like oranges when growing up in Austria.  I know all that acidity is really bad for your teeth but occasionally I will eat a lemon slice or two...or three...or four...Okay, I'm addicted to lemons!  I put lemon juice in my tea, I love it on fish, I've drank lemon juice straight up...oh my mouth is watering just thinking about it!  I remember those [supposedly] sour candies as a kid, Mega Warheads.  My friends were always amazed that I never made any faces while eating them but even those weren't sour enough for me.  I never make faces while eating lemons either.  Guess I'm a first class sour puss!


And lately, especially with summer in the air, my mom and I have been on a lemon sorbet kick.  We have bought countless pints from Safeway, along with pints of raspberry sorbet--sometimes I like to have a scoop of each.  It's like eating frozen raspberry lemonade!  But I have been wanting to make my homemade lemon sorbet for some time and today, I finally had some time to make it!


This is by far, the most delicious lemon sorbet ever.  It is waaaaaaaaay better than any of the store-bought versions I've eaten.  And if you love sour lemon sorbet, this is the one for you.  Though I do have a good version for those that might like it a little less sour.  

Just because it makes it more fun, serve up your lemon sorbet
in a champagne flute instead of a bowl!

The reason I love this lemon sorbet so much is that it uses a whole 2 cups of freshly squeezed lemon juice.  Though I've been known to use bottled lemon juice when I'm too lazy to squeeze the lemons myself and it still tastes just as wonderful!  But if this version is too sour for your tastes, try replacing 1/2 cup of the water with Limoncello.  I suggest playing around with the measurements until you find the right sweet-sour balance for your taste.  

The other thing I've also added to this recipe is a few drops of lemon oil.  My dad's wife sells essential oils and I like to use some of them in cooking and baking (like the wild orange in my chocolate truffles).  


This lemon sorbet is perfect for enjoying on your back porch after a hot summer day or serving it up as dessert at any summer soiree.  Or you could try it in a Sgroppino, an Italian cocktail my aunt from Texas introduced me to.  Funnily enough, she had it while on a business trip in Turkey!  It's a mix of vodka, Prosecco, lemon sorbet and sometimes a little splash of Limoncello.  You can find a recipe for a crowd of 12 at PeterCallahan.com.  


So grab some lemons, sugar and water and get ready to get your sour puss on!


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Luscious Lemon Sorbet


Recipe by This Bittersweet Life
Prep time: 5 minutes
Cook time: 2 minutes
Total time: 20 minutes to 3 hours
Yield: approximately 2 pints


Ingredients
  • 1 lemon Zest, of
  • 2 cups Freshly squeezed lemon juice
  • 1 3/4 cup Water
  • 2 cups Sugar
  • 1/2 cup Limoncello (optional)
Cooking Directions
  1. In a saucepan, combine Limoncello (if using), water and sugar and cook just until the sugar is dissolved. Remove from heat and cool slightly.
  2. Pour into a bowl then add the lemon juice and lemon zest.
  3. Next you can either cool the mixture in an ice bath (ice, salt and water) or place in the fridge until cool.
  4. Once the mixture has cooled, pour it into your ice cream maker and churn until slushy. Pour into a container and place in freezer to finish firming up.
  5. If you don't have an ice cream maker, pour into a 9x13 pan and place in freezer until firm (2-3 hours). Using a fork, stir the sorbet every half hour.



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We have been absent from our blog for some time now.  Our Oma, (grandmother) was nearing the end of her life as she was 95-years-old and each day she required more of our time and care.  This past holiday season things started to go downhill very quickly.  My mom and I noticed a steep decline after Thanksgiving.  After my uncle from Texas visited for Christmas, there was an even steeper decline in both the mental capacity and health of my Oma.

In early January, our family made arrangements with my Oma's doctor to have her enrolled in at-home hospice care.  She was, of course, admitted into hospice.  All of our lives changed that day.  From then on out, the time she needed from me for care increased exponentially day-by-day.  My Oma could no longer use her walker and we were moving her about the house in her transfer chair.  She also could no longer get up and toilet on her own and needed help being transferred to the bedside potty.  We were feeding her and each day it became more and more of a liquid and soft food diet as her dentures no longer fit well and because it became harder for her to swallow.  


The Vintage Wedding Layout that Almost Wasn't:  I made this layout for my Oma and Opa's wedding photo but I  almost didn't make this layout.  After a huge fight with my Oma, I threw the page in the trash.  The next day I fished it out of the trash to finish it.
The Vintage Wedding Layout that Almost Wasn't:  I made this layout for my Oma and Opa's wedding photo but I
almost didn't make this layout.  After a huge fight with my Oma, I threw the page in the trash.  The next day I
fished it out of the trash to finish it.  


There were several days where my mom had to come home early because my Oma was too afraid for me to leave her side and I couldn't take my dogs out to potty or even use the bathroom myself.  The hospice workers said to get rest when she slept but there were many times my Oma would fight nature and the meds and would stay awake out of fear.  I know she always wanted to go in her sleep and she was afraid that would be the last time she would see one of us.  

Her communication skills decreased and mostly became yes and no answers with few moments of lucidity and several word answers.  I finally figured out that she wasn't really afraid to die but to leave my mom, sister and I alone.  She was afraid that we still needed her, despite the numerous amount of times everyone had told her it was okay to go; that we would all be okay because we had each other.  She was always the typical stubborn Germanic woman.  

The last few days of her life consisted of baby food (we told her it was pureed fruits to spare her what little dignity she had left), glycerin swabs, popsicles, water and her favorite, beer.  This was on top of the round-the-clock medicine doses which all had to be given in liquid form.  We had to prep syringes of morphine and crush pills and use water to pick it up into syringes.  

On what was to be her last evening, the on-call nurse called to notify us that after looking at all that had happened in the last couple of days, that my Oma was now bed-bound.  But my Oma was proud and wouldn't use her Depends.  My mom had to run an errand after work and my Oma was fidgety.  I told her to use her Depends or she would have to wait until my mom got home as she was a 2 person lift now.  My Oma waited for my mom to come help and lift her to the bedside potty.  While we waited for my mom, my Oma talked about seeing her mother and her sister Edith, whom she had never mentioned seeing before.  I knew from this, that the end was even closer than we had originally thought. When my mom arrived home we got her to the bedside potty then fed her dinner, which was a popsicle, and then gave her some beer.  


My Oma meeting my puppy, Magnus, for the first time.  She couldn't understand why I wanted a second dog…but it was love at first sight!  She and Magnus bonded during the last couple months of her life; August 2014.
My Oma meeting my puppy, Magnus, for the first time.  She couldn't understand
why I wanted a second dog…but it was love at first sight!  She and Magnus bonded
during the last couple months of her life; August 2014.  

When my mom was giving her beer, my Oma had a lucid moment.  She pulled my mom's ear toward her mouth and whispered, "Please stay home from work tomorrow."  My mom of course agreed to honor her wish.  I remember my Oma falling asleep unusually fast not long after.  My Oma didn't wake at all during the night.  There had been a few nights where she tried to get out of bed about every minute or so and many nights where she woke every couple of hours.  

The next morning my mom and I were there to greet our normal Thursday/Friday morning caretaker, Berta.  I had promised Berta last week that I would be around the house just in case she needed help with anything.  Berta was surprised to see my mom.  After telling Berta about my Oma's request Berta laughed and said, "It would be so like Ruth to schedule her own death!"  We all laughed at that because it is definitely something my Oma would have done.  She was always a scheduler and planner.  "10:30, die, check!"  That was at about 8:30 in the morning on Thursday, February 11th.

That afternoon her nurse, Emily, called to see how things were going and to make arrangements for a medication delivery on Friday so we would have enough to get us through the weekend.  I remember my Oma making some noise through the baby monitor while my mom was on the phone but she seemed to finally quite and settle down.  After my Oma was quiet, Berta went back to my her room to move the chair she had pulled up to the bed to just sit next to my Oma while she slept because she realized we couldn't see my Oma on the baby monitor.  She came out of the room and called for my mom but since my mom was still on the phone, she waved her off.  I got up and went back to see what she needed.  The color had drained from Berta's face.  I knew something wasn't right so I went into my Oma's bedroom without asking.  I remember Berta saying something as I passed her but I don't know if Berta's words came out jumbled or if I just heard it jumbled.  My heart was pounding and it finally registered that Berta was saying, "Somethings not right" over and over again.  I watched my Oma's chest for a sign of breathing and saw none.  


My Oma proudly holding up her official White House greeting for her 95th birthday; July 2015.
My Oma proudly holding up her official White House
greeting for her 95th birthday; July 2015.
 
I ran out of the room and called my mom, very insistent that she needed to come down to Oma's bedroom.  Mom was about to hang up with Emily but  had her hang on because something was wrong.  For some reason, my mom handed me the phone when I met her halfway.  I remember saying something along the lines of, "This is ridiculous, just bring Emily with us, she's the nurse" and then realizing Emily was on the phone and amending my statement.


My mom looked at my Oma for a few seconds then said, "Oh my God, Emily.  My mother died while we were on the phone."  Emily said she was hanging up and coming out right away.  I had to gather myself to call my sister's work to let her know I was coming to get her.  That was 12:20 on Thursday, February 11th.  

The rest of that day was a whirlwind but I still felt like I was moving through thickened glue.  A few days later my uncle and aunt arrived from Texas to help start cleaning out the house for the next five days.  I remember hardly having time to grieve.  I was just thankful that my Oma and I had a chance to make amends before she left for her next life's journey.  

Two months later, with my Oma's ashes interred next to my Opa's coffin and life moving on, I began working on my resume.  I need a regular job again.  I returned to my gardening as spring had literally sprung in all of them and I continued packing up my Oma's house and my mom's house.  


My sister, Caitlin, sharing a special moment with our Oma not long after she was admitted into at-home hospice care.  This was about a month prior to her death on February 11, 2016.
My sister, Caitlin, sharing a special moment with our Oma not long after she was admitted into at-home hospice care.  This was about a month prior to her death on February 11, 2016.  

Yesterday, my band began prepping music for our summer concert series.  One of the concerts in the series is entitled "Night at the Symphony" and includes some band arrangements of, as I would refer to as, heavy hitters:  Tchaikovsky's Finale to Symphony No. 4, Gershwin's An American in Paris and Mozart's Overture to the Marriage of Figaro amongst other pieces.  But when we started practicing Strauss' An der Schönen, Blauen Donau (The Beautiful Blue Danube) I nearly broke down sobbing.  I just barley held it together…it was a lot harder than I thought it would be to hear and play the song that is so emblematic of my Oma's motherland, Austria.  

And so my grieving process continues.  I will have to prepare myself before the concert with this piece in June.  Listening to it on repeat should help.  I can hardly break down during a performance or mess up notes--especially on piccolo!  I've now gotten to the end of this post, only realizing I meant to say a quick "We will be back with regular posts soon" now that things have calmed down in our lives.  Perhaps I needed this cathartic exercise.  Here is to my family's new beginnings!  

Adrienne



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I love a good excuse to throw a party with yummy food.  So in conjunction with Alice Scraps Wonderland, I threw a premier party for Shadowhunters, a television show on Freeform (the new name for ABC Family) based of the world-wide bestselling book series The Mortal Instruments by Cassandra Clare.

I'm a huge fan of the books and so I picked out foods mentioned in the series or foods that seemed to fit a character's personality to serve at my party. Alice Scraps Wonderland made some fun food name cards to label the different foods on the buffet table and has been making beautiful mixed media Shadowhunters inspired tags that are perfect to display on a buffet table full of food!


In the first book, The City of Bones, Jace pulls a tub of leftover spaghetti out of the fridge that is clearly labeled with Hodge's name when he sees Isabelle attempting to make dinner.  (Apparently Izzy can't cook and no one at the Institute wants to eat the food she makes.)  So my mom, Sylvia, made her famous lasagna sauce (a super secret family recipe--sorry!) and boiled some spaghetti noodles and I labeled it "Hodge's Favorite Spaghetti."  We also added a little shredded fresh parmesan to the mix!  And since garlic bread goes wonderfully with spaghetti, we made some and I decided to name it "Simon's Anti Vampire Garlic Bread."  It's perfect for the nerdy boy who believes garlic might save him from those bloodsucking nighttime monsters.  I also made a mixed green salad topped with apples, strawberries, dried cranberries and sunflower seeds.  With all the fruit it was quite magical for this time of year so it was bestowed the namesake of "Magnus' Magical Salad."  And I bought some Izze sodas (because of Izzy, duh!) to wash it all down with.  I really wanted some blackberry flavored Izze sodas to mirror the sultry color of Izzy's lipstick in the TV show, but my local grocery store was out so I went with grapefruit--a pretty girly pink, plus clementine because it's one of my favorites!


For dessert I chose to make some vanilla cupcakes iced with my favorite buttercream (chocolate cherry) that I tinted black.  I sprinkled on a few white candy pearls and made angelic runes with melted white chocolate to place on top of the cupcakes.  I labeled these "Clary's Artistic Angelic Rune Cupcakes" because in the beginning of the show, Clary doodles Shadowhunter runes without knowing what she is doing.  In one of the later books in the series, Jace mentions he likes mangos so I picked up a mango sorbet and a mango sorbetto.  We all know Jace is charming and smooth so I labeled this "Jace's Smooth Mango Sorbet."  I served up a scoop of the cold yummy goodness in a chilled martini glass.  In the books, Madame Dorothea (known as Dot in the TV show) asks Jace and Clary if they would like tea when they came to visit her in the first book.  Jace tells her anything but Earl Grey because he hates bergamot.  So I found a Mortal Cup-like chalice in my Oma's china cabinet and stuffed it with bags of Tazo's Earl Grey tea.  I pulled out some of my sister's vintage teacups and a teapot as well.


As for tablescaping, I used a black tablecloth with a white and silver table runner.  I always like differences in hight when setting up a buffet table.  It's very artistic and pleasing to the eye.  So I used one of my Oma's fancy cake stands to hold the cupcakes up high and propped the salad bowl up on a short vase turned upside down and stuffed with a silver organza napkin and a strand of glimmer lights.  I also added silver mercury glass candle pedestals and candles then placed the tags created by Alice Scraps Wonderland around the table.

Don't forget to visit Alice Scraps Wonderland's blog for more on the tags and cards!




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It has been a roller coaster ride of weather here in Colorado.  One morning I was wearing yoga pants and a tank top outside then the next day I needed a wool peacoat on!  It has finally stayed mostly cold here--at least enough to keep all the snow from melting in our yards for nearly a week.  During those colder stretches, it's nice to have something to remind you of those warmer summer days...

At my mom's office, a couple people each month are in charge of decorating the cubicle or office for those who have birthdays and there is one day a month where everyone celebrates with cake or ice cream.  December is my mother's month and she likes to make a homemade treat for everyone to enjoy because, well, that's just how we operate in this family.  This month was Giovanny's birthday and one of her favorite flavors is coconut.

Don't those layers of coconut cake drenched in tres leches, coconut pastry cream, whipped cream and shredded coconut just look delightful?  Like a little piece of heaven (even with the "welcome to the 70s" background of my Oma's old house)!

Perfect!  Such a wonderful excuse to enjoy something a bit more tropical!  So my mom baked up the cakes ahead of time and stuck them in the garage fridge.  She also made the coconut pastry cream and tres leches mixture ahead of time and stored them in the fridge as well.  The next day I assembled the trifle (with a few changes) so that it would have time to sit in the fridge and let the flavors mingle before my mom took it in to work the next morning.

I love trifles.  They are so easy and there are so many flavor possibilities.  Plus, the layers are pretty!  And have I mentioned how much I love my Pampered Chef trifle bowl? No?  Well I love it!  The pedestal is removable for easy storage and it comes with a nifty little lid for fridge storage and transportation.

Photo courtesy of Mel's Kitchen Cafe.  I wanted to show you the photo from the original maker of this recipe!

Score!  This trifle was a huge hit at my mom's office!  (Thank goodness because this was the first time we tried this recipe!)  You can find the original recipe at Mel's Kitchen Cafe.  Below is the recipe with a few changes of my own--because I'm all about the distinct layers in trifles!


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Coconut Tres Leches Trifle



Recipe by This Bittersweet Life
Prep time: 5 minutes
Cook time: 20 minutes
Total time: 12 hours
Yield: 10 servings


Ingredients
  • Coconut Pastry Cream:
  • 1 can (14 oz) coconut milk
  • 3/4 cup granulated sugar
  • 1 tablespoon vanilla extract
  • pinch of salt
  • 3 large egg yolks
  • 2 tablespoons corn starch
  • 2 tablespoons butter
  • 1/2 teaspoon coconut extract
  • Cake:
  • 1 cup white sugar, divided
  • 5 egg yolks
  • 5 egg whites
  • 1/3 cup coconut milk
  • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1 teaspoon coconut extract
  • 1 cup all-purpose flour
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
  • Whipping Cream & Topping:
  • 2 cups heavy whipping cream
  • 6 tablespoons powdered sugar
  • 2 packages Whip It
  • 1 1/2 cups shredded coconut
  • 1/3 cup shredded, toasted coconut
  • 1/2 cup sweetened condensed milk
  • 1/2 cup evaporated milk
  • 1/2 cup coconut milk
Cooking Directions
  1. First, make the pastry cream so it can chill in the refrigerator. In a medium saucepan, combine the coconut milk, sugar, salt and vanilla. Heat over medium heat. In a medium bowl, whisk together the egg yolks and cornstarch. When the coconut milk mixture comes to a simmer, slowly ladle about 1/2 cup of the hot mixture into the egg yolk mixture, whisking vigorously and constantly so the eggs don't scramble and cook. Add the entire egg yolk mixture into the saucepan and whisk constantly while the mixture cooks over medium heat for 3-4 minus; it will thicken considerably. Off the heat, whisk in the butter and coconut extract. Pour the pastry cream into a bowl, cover with plastic wrap directly on the surface and refrigerate until completely chilled, 3-4 hours (you can speed up the process by placing the bottom of the bowl in an ice water bath and stirring the pastry cream constantly until cool).
  2. While the pastry cream is chilling, make the cake. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F and grease two round cake pans. Measure your trifle dish to determine what size pans you need.
  3. In a medium bowl, beat the egg yolks with the 3/4 cup granulated sugar until they are light and thick, about 2-3 minutes. Mix in the coconut milk, vanilla extra, coconut extract, flower, salt and baking powder. In a separate bowl, whip up the egg whites until foamy. While beating, add the remaining 1/4 cup sugar and beat until stiff peaks form. Gently fold the egg whites into the cake batter. Divide batter evenly between the 2 pans; bake 12-14 minutes or until an inserted toothpick comes out clean. Turn the cakes onto a cooling rack; cool completely.
  4. For the whipped cream, combine the cream, sugar and Whip It (can be found in German bakeries or in the ethnic isle of your grocery store--it's a fantastic stabilizer that keeps your whipped cream from getting runny too quickly) in a chilled bowl and beat until stiff peaks form.
  5. To assemble, first make the tres leches mixture. Whisk together the condensed milk, evaporated milk and coconut milk (or put them all in a canning jar and shake vigorously!). Place one cake in the bottom of your trifle bowl and poke a few holes in the cake with a straw then poke many more holes in the cake with a fork. Gradually pour 3/4 cup of the tres leches mixture on your cake, gently swirling and poking with a fork until the liquid has settled into the cake. If you don't feel like swirling, you can refrigerate for 30 minutes to let the milk soak in. top with 1/2 of the coconut pastry cream then 1/3 of the shredded coconut and 1/2 of the whipped cream.
  6. Poke holes all over the 2nd cake layer then place it in the trifle dish over the whipped cream layer. Pour the remaining tres leches mixture over the cake and swirl or refrigerate as you did with the first layer of cake. Then top with the rest of the coconut pastry cream, 1/3 of the shredded coconut and the rest of the whipped cream. Top with the last 1/3 of the shredded coconut then the 1/3 cup of the toasted shredded coconut.
  7. Refrigerate for at least 12 hours (up to 24 hours) before serving. Serve chilled




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The holiday season seems to be flying by so fast.  I can't believe we are already half way through December!  Now that I am finally done with all three of my holiday concerts, with two of them on the same day (yikes that was a long day!), I can finally focus on my holiday baking!

Wait, I have less than two weeks before we celebrate Christmas?!  And I still have to wrap all the presents?!  Somehow I always end up wrapping nearly all of the presents--even my own…Well, I helped my mom purchase the presents too.  (She's technologically savvy and yet I still end up doing the "finger work" of the online purchases.)  I haven't had a whole lot of surprises under the tree for many years but at least I know I get what I want!

Put your truffles in a pretty box with cellophane, add in some nice tea or coffee  and give it as a gift this holiday season.

Back to the baking.  (One thing at a time, Adrienne!)  There is nothing I love more during the holidays than my own, homemade chocolate truffles.  The flavor possibilities are endless!  They are super easy to make, just be sure you set aside a whole day to make them as it can be a little time consuming.  But the results are beautiful enough to give as a holiday gift and just as delicious as they are pretty.

All you need for this recipe is heavy cream, milk chocolate chips, semi-sweet chocolate chips, toothpicks, a double boiler or heat-proof bowl, crisco or household wax (I'll explain this, don't worry!), liqueur or candy flavoring, white chocolate baking bars or chips and a piping bag.

Don't these look delightful?  And you know they are handmade from the slightly irregular shape and imperfect white chocolate decoration.  

Start by placing the milk chocolate chips and the heavy cream in a saucepan on low heat, stirring until melted.  Remove your chocolate mixture from the heat and pour into a mixing bowl.  This is the fun part--add your flavoring!  Here are some ideas to get you started:


  • Bailey's (there is a variety of Bailey's flavors besides the original Irish Creme, from vanilla-cinnamon to hazelnut)
  • Khaluah or strong brewed coffee
  • Fruit flavors such as raspberry, orange, pomegranate, apricot and cherry (use candy flavorings, essential oils or a juice like Pom)
  • Amaretto (decorate with little slices of almonds)
  • Coconut (try replacing a small amount of the creme with coconut cream and decorating with shredded coconut flakes)
  • Guinness
  • Mint
  • Cardamon
  • Lavandar (if you are feeling adventurous!)

Don't be afraid to try new flavor combos.  Just make sure you don't add too much liquid flavoring to your mixture--you don't want it so soft that you can't roll it into balls.

Milk chocolate centers enrobed by semisweet chocolate and decorated with white chocolate, nuts, candies--whatever you want!

Once you have added your flavoring, use your stand mixer or hand mixer with a whisk attachment and blend for about 30 seconds.  Just to make sure you get the flavoring well-incorporated.  The mixture should be nice and smooth. 

Pour your truffle mixture into a small bowl and cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate for about 30 minutes or until firm.  Like me, you can make this mixture several days ahead of the rolling and dipping process.  Just leave it in the fridge until you are ready.  When you are, let the mixture sit out on your counter until it is soft enough to roll into balls.


You'll want to get your dipping chocolate melted and ready to go.  Usually a bag of semi-sweet is more than enough to cover 1 batch of truffles.  If you don't have a double boiler, make one by finding a heat proof bowl that will fit into a saucepan but doesn't touch the bottom of it.  You want there to be enough room for water and a bit of air in-between--the hot steam is what melts your dipping chocolate.  Pour enough water into your saucepan to fill the bottom and place the top of your double boiler or your bowl over it.  Pour in your semi-sweet chocolate and put it on low heat.

To temper the chocolate, you will want to add a bit of Crisco or household wax.  I prefer wax--I know this sounds weird or yucky, but the wax won't change the flavor of your truffles and it gives them a nice shiny and smooth finish.  I use a vegetable peeler and slowly add shavings to the chocolate.  You want your melted chocolate to drizzle off your spoon, not plop off of it back into your bowl.  *If you have a local bakery supply store, they might carry paraffin baking wax made especially for tempering chocolate, though I find the household wax works just as well, if not better.*



Next, cover a cookie sheet with parchment or wax paper and begin rolling your truffle mixture into balls.  The size depends on your preference.  I find that I like a smaller size because these truffles are very rich and I get more individual truffles out of 1 recipe (in the hopes that they last longer…I'm looking at you, fellow chocolate monsters in my family…oh wait, that's just me and my Oma and since my Oma is 95, she gets a pass).  Once I'm done rolling the mixture into balls, I pop the cookie sheet into the freezer for several minutes.  If your truffles are too warm, they will fall into your dipping chocolate and contaminate your dipping chocolate with whatever flavor you were dipping!

Once the truffle balls are firm, I place toothpicks into them for dipping.  You can use a fork if you like, but using toothpicks makes them come out much cleaner and with less chocolate on them.  Don't poke the toothpick too far in--just enough to hold the truffle ball firmly.

Dip your truffle ball into the melted semi-sweet chocolate, tapping the toothpick on the side of your bowl to help the excess chocolate drip off.  Place the truffle onto your cookie sheet.  Once, I'm several truffles into dipping, the first ones are usually firmed up enough to take the toothpick out.  Just give a little twist and discard the used toothpicks.  (I've tried reusing them but I either get my fingers sticky with chocolate left on the toothpicks or they don't come off as cleanly as unused toothpicks.)  Be sure to not leave the toothpicks in the dipped truffles for too long, if you do, use a fork to push down on the truffle while pulling up on the toothpick--using your fingers may melt the truffle again.

Truffles and tea or coffee--the perfect mid-day holiday pick-me-up!

During the dipping process I'm not opposed to "accidentally" messing up a truffle or two.  I have to have some to taste test to make sure they turned out okay, right?  I also return my un-dipped and dipped truffles to the freezer every once in a while to keep them from getting too soft.  Once you are done dipping a full batch, return them to the freezer until the chocolate shell has hardened.  

In a heat proof bowl, melt 4 bars of baker's white chocolate.  Thirty seconds in the microwave should do the trick.  You want the bowl to get warm and the chocolate to soften a bit.  Stir the chocolate vigorously until it's fully melted.  If you need to, microwave it up to two more times at 5 seconds each.  Any more time in the micro and your chocolate will no longer be tempered.  Again, it should be smooth and drizzly, not ploppy.  If it plops back into your bowl, throw it out and start over because you have successfully burned your chocolate.  Spoon your melted white chocolate into a piping bag with a small round tip or a zippered plastic bag with a small tip cut off.  Drizzle or pipe a design onto the top of the truffles.  This will hide that toothpick hole!  I like to design mine based on the flavor so people know what they are getting.  I mostly do this because of my Oma--her favorite is coffee flavored and she wanted to be able to pick them out so I obliged.

If you want to add something other than white chocolate, like coconut flakes, be sure to add them before your dipped truffles get too hard.  Or you can drizzle on white chocolate and add the coconut flakes.  You can also use a dot of white chocolate to adhere a slice of almond to amaretto flavored truffles or a red hot to vanilla-cinnamon flavored truffles.  Want to get super fancy?  Brush on some edible gold dust!

Put your truffles in a pretty box with cellophane, add in some nice tea or coffee  and give it as a gift this holiday season.


The possibilities are endless!  Not to mention these truffles look absolutely delightful in a decorative tin or box--the perfect gift for the chocolate lover or the person who is hard to buy for.  Because, seriously, who doesn't love chocolate?!

Be sure to store these in a cool and dry place--melted truffles are yucky and temperature changes make the chocolate taste funny.  You can even keep them in the fridge if you like and then let them soften on the counter for about 10 minutes before serving. 

This year I was invited to Bake Day by my friend DeLyn.  A whole group of friends get together and spend the whole day baking holiday goodies!  Each person brings a recipe they want to make, so of course I chose my truffles.  I pre made 2 milk chocolate mixtures so all I would have to do would be to roll, dip and decorate my truffles.  I made raspberry and vanilla-cinnamon to share with everyone.  At the end of bake day, everyone gets to take home a bit of each treat made that day.  And we made a lot of goodies that day!  I only took home a few of my own truffles so that everyone else could take more of them.  I knew I would be making more at home later.

For the holidays, I make between 2 and 4 batches of truffles.  If I'm pressed for time, sometimes I divide the melted milk chocolate mixture in half before flavoring, so I get two flavors out of one recipe.  The two to three batches made about two weeks before Christmas usually lasts my family through New Year's.

Enjoy!
Adrienne


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Easy Chocolate Truffles


Recipe by This Bittersweet Life

Prep time: 5 minutes
Cook time: 10 minutes
Total time: 1-2 hours
Yield: 20-40 pieces





Ingredients
  • One 11.5 oz pkg. milk chocolate pieces
  • 1/3 cup heavy whipping cream
  • 1/2 teaspoon flavoring (such as candy flavoring, extract or liquor)
  • 8 oz. white chocolate
  • 1/2 cup semisweet chocolate pieces
  • Crisco or household canning wax/paraffin to temper chocolate
  • optional: candies, nuts, edible gold dusting, etc. for decoration
  • 20+ toothpicks
Cooking Directions
  1. Combine milk chocolate pieces and heavy whipping cream in a heavy saucepan, cooking on low 4-5 minutes or just until the chocolate melts, stirring frequently.
  2. Remove from heat, cooling slightly. Add flavoring of choice.
  3. Beat mixture with an electric mixer on low till smooth.
  4. Cover and refrigerate 1 hour till firm. If you refrigerate longer, let the chocolate mixture soften on the counter for about 5-10 minutes until pliable enough to spoon out.
  5. Line baking sheet with waxed paper. Roll chocolate mixture into quarter-sized balls or smaller (I do about nickle-sized because the truffles are so rich) and place on covered baking sheet.
  6. Insert wooden toothpicks into each truffle--not too far! Just enough to hold it firmly while dipping so it doesn't fall back into your melted dipping chocolate. You can skip this step if you choose to use a fork for the dipping process.
  7. Place the baking sheet of truffles into the freezer for about 5-10 minutes. Don't leave them in too long or your dipping chocolate may crack off your truffle later on. We just want to quickly firm these back up before dipping. Or, if you have some other things you need to get done while waiting, you can place the truffles back into the fridge for about a half hour.
  8. In a double boiler, melt your semisweet chocolate pieces. Once melted, add small amounts of crisco or wax to the melted chocolate to temper it. You know it's ready for dipping when you lift your spoon or spatula out of the pot covered in chocolate and it runs off of it easily in ribbons (no plopping!).
  9. Take your truffles out of the freezer or fridge and begin dipping one truffle at a time, letting the excess drip off.
  10. Once the truffles have firmed up a bit, take the toothpicks out by slowly and gently twisting it up and out. Just keep checking them to see if they are ready. You can always re-dip or just dip the bottom of the truffle into the chocolate mixture if you waited too long to take the toothpick out--or use a fork to push down on the truffle while pulling up on the toothpick. Discard used toothpicks.
  11. After dipping, place the truffles back into the fridge for about 10-15 minutes just to help harden them up.
  12. In a microwave safe bowl or Pyrex measuring cup, microwave your white chocolate for about 20-30 seconds. Remove and stir vigorously until all the chocolate melts. Heat for an additional 5 seconds if needed.
  13. Spoon or pour white chocolate into a piping bag with small tip or a plastic sandwich bag with the tip cut off.
  14. Remove truffles from fridge and pipe designs onto them using the white chocolate. Add candies, nuts, etc. to a dot of white chocolate before it hardens.
  15. Store in a pretty box or airtight container in a cool and dry location or in the fridge.







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